Sex Positions

Will he like the way you touch him? Will he roll his eyes when you go down on him, but not in a good way?! Try not to stress about your first time (or any time!) with a man – everyone’s different and communication makes for super hot sex.

No matter how experienced you are, these steamy anal sex positions will give you plenty of inspiration next time you’re DTF. Each one comes with variations and recommendations to intensify pleasure for you and your lover. And if anal’s not for you, you’ll find plenty of other ways to pleasure a guy.

From gay sex positions ideal for your first time to ideas to try when you need some inspiration, this article is brimming with ideas. Read on for advice on how to have safe, fun gay sex.

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Benny had been a bottom for years before he really had that ‘wow’ moment with anal sex.* “I came out at 19 and started sleeping with guys around then,” he explains. “I did some self-experimentation and anal was always just… nice enough. Not amazing but not awful.”

It wasn’t until he took his pleasure into his own hands, exploring his sexuality in a safe environment and taking more control in the bedroom, that he discovered how great anal sex could be. He says, “finally [I had] one of those mind-blowing orgasms, to the point where I thought to myself: Good Lord! I’ve been doing sex wrong!”

No matter what kind of sex you’re having or how seasoned you are, safely exploring new things will keep your sex life fresh and full of pleasure. So, whether you’re looking for inspo to spice up your anal sex life or guidance for your first time, you’ll find tips and techniques right here.

*Benny isn’t his real name but he’s a real person and commenter on the Lovehoney Forum. We thought his username Butts_and_thighs_on_guys might be a bit of a mouthful! Check out his story here (it’s a great read).

Get ready to ride: this steamy sex position is a classic for a reason. Offering total control for the partner on top, incredible views for the partner underneath and deep penetration for both of you, the Reverse Cowgirl is a whole lot of fun. It’s also much simpler than it sounds.

And if you thought this position was just for heterosexual penis-in-vagina sex, think again: Reverse Cowgirl can be reimagined for all couples and genders — and tailored with toys to stimulate your favourite hot spots. So, let’s get into all the dirty details… Giddy up!